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You are here: Home / Testimonies / In the Words of Julie Stanley, Vice President of Estate Planning at The Baptist Foundation of Oklahoma

In the Words of Julie Stanley, Vice President of Estate Planning at The Baptist Foundation of Oklahoma

October 15, 2020 by admin

 

8 Myths of Estate Planning

No believer knows when Christ will call them home. Don’t let one of these common misconceptions stop you from protecting your family and supporting ministries like OJPM.

Myth 1: I don’t need an estate plan because… wait, what exactly is an estate plan?!

While this technically isn’t a myth, the nature of estate planning seems shrouded in mystery. This may be because it’s difficult to talk about what happens when we die. So, what is an estate plan? An estate plan is a set of essential legal documents that settle critical end-of-life decisions like asset distribution, children’s guardianship, healthcare decisions and charitable giving.

Myth 2: Only the wealthy or retired need an estate plan.

This is the single biggest misconception about estate planning. While it may sound like something for the “rich and famous,” everyone needs an estate plan, regardless of income, age or marital status. Even those with modest means (or significant debt) still have assets like their home, personal effects and other possessions that must be distributed. For young families, an estate plan answers questions about who will care for your children if both parents die.

Myth 3: My spouse or family will take care of this after I’m gone.

This is a tremendous burden to place on family members who are already grieving your loss. Without an estate plan, you are forcing them to guess your wishes and to rely on state law regarding the distribution of your assets. Families can be torn apart by disagreements over how a loved one’s assets should be divided. An estate plan resolves this by detailing your desires in advance.

Myth 4: I’m married but I don’t have children so I don’t need an estate plan. 

Don’t assume your assets will easily transfer to your spouse. There are often complex legal hurdles that an estate plan can help avoid. Plus, without an estate plan more of your spouse’s assets may be lost to taxes, court costs or legal fees.

Myth 5: I don’t need an estate plan because I’m single.

Death doesn’t discriminate by marital status. Without an estate plan, state law will determine what happens to your assets when you pass — not you. An estate plan also includes vital information about your care should you become disabled or incapacitated. If you are incapacitated, what choices do you want made about your life? Don’t assume parents, siblings, or other relatives can make choices according to your wishes. Save them from the burden of guessing what you “would have wanted.”

Myth 6: It’s complicated and time consuming.

Not with help from the estate planning experts at The Baptist Foundation of Oklahoma. OJPM’s  partnership with the Foundation provides access to a host of complimentary estate planning resources if you leave a qualifying gift to ministry. 

Myth 7: I’ll get around to it eventually. 

Sadly, we’ve heard this from far too many families whose loved one has unexpectedly passed away or become incapacitated without an estate plan in place. The Bible tells us life is short and that no believer knows when Christ will call them home. Please don’t put off your estate plan. The Foundation’s online Estate Planning Guidebook streamlines the process, allowing you to complete the majority of the work at your pace, from the comfort of your home — even in your PJs! You can access the guidebook for free at www.bfok.org/plan.

Myth 8: I already have an estate plan, so I’m set for life.

Life doesn’t stand still. Babies are born, teenagers become adults and sometimes a spouse or child leaves this earth before you do. Updating your estate plan every five to seven years is critical to wise stewardship of your estate.

CALL TO ACTION: Protect your family with an estate plan.

Oklahoma Jail and Prison Ministries’ partnership with The Baptist Foundation of Oklahoma provides access to a host of complimentary estate planning resources you can use to protect your family and support the work of OJPM. Learn more by contacting the Foundation’s estate planning experts at 800-949-9988 or estateplan@bfok.org, or by visiting www.bfok.org/plan.

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Always Call Sin “Sin:”
It is no favor to the counselee to call sin “sickness” or “a genetic problem.” The kindest thing to do is tell the truth. There is hope in right labeling. Jesus came to forgive and to defeat sin. He doesn’t promise to change our genes or to heal all our sicknesses. Names are important. Names can be signs and sign posts: they point to solutions. “Sickness” points to the physician; “sin: points to Jesus Christ.

Never Minimize:

Don’t minimize the severity of a counselee’s problem. Nor should you minimize his negative evaluation of himself. It isn’t easy for a sinner to admit his sin. Some, meaning well, do poorly instead when they say things like, “O, come on, John, you haven’t been that bad.” If a woman says, “I’ve been a miserable failure as a mother,” take her seriously. Say something like this in response: “That is serious; tell me how bad a mother you have been.” Minimize neither the evaluation that the counselee makes, nor the severity of his situation. Rather, maximize the Savior: “Yes, your situation is really bad, but – thank God – Jesus Christ can solve problems even that serious.”

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